Thursday, February 24, 2011

Did I mention that I have the best deardear in the world?

Ok, maybe some people out there will probably say the same thing too. But, I wanna say that too! Hahahahaha! Not trying to show off but as my dear dear say, the word of the week (or was it last week?) is gratitude. Hehs.

Because of him, my sucky days are not that yucky.

Everytime I'm deprived of something because of money, somehow or another, he will appear as my ATM machine and make sure that I'm not deprived of that. The thing I don't understand about him is that, why does he feel so happy doing all these things leh? I probably should because I like to do such stuffs too. Hahaha. It's much easier to spend money on him than on myself. And seeing him receiving the things makes me really happy too! =D

Whatever he does, he will think of me. If it means leaving me behind, he'll probably either not do it, or find a way to make sure I'm not left behind. And that's probably why he wants to sponsor me for the Phuket and Taiwan trip this year. See, I told you, he's my human ATM machine. Lol. Him doing all these makes me feel bad all the time. But recently, I know that letting him do all these makes him happy, alright, let it be. Ha!

So long I'm happy, he's okay. He can shake off all the lazy bugs on his body so long I say I want to go out for dinner. Ha! But of course, being the lovely Kelly, I didn't! I get all the best food, I get to do so anything, so long I'm happy and he is able to make it happen. And because of this, I learned what it meant by making others happy can make yourself happy too. The smile on his face can mean a lot to me!

He pampers me, he dotes on me. There was a day when I suggested ironing his working shirts for him and he took me hand and told me kindly, "我把你娶回家是给你做太太的。" (Of course I made a big fuss out of the 3 words "娶回家" and of course, that was just a statement.)

He makes me feel important. Even though there are many decisions that he can make himself, I will also be consulted. From small things like what color of the shirt should he wear today to I can't really think of any now (HAHAHA!), I have a say. And when I have a say means when I say, he will listen and not just ask me for the sake of asking. And once in awhile, he will tell me that he really don't know what to do without me. The feeling of being important is very important. And of course, he's the center pillar of my life. Way way way too important to me. And, I practically idolize him. Hahaha!

He knows what I love and what I hate. He knows what's my next action will be. He knows what to avoid. He knows me well. Haha. That saved a lot of trouble and avoided a lot of trouble too. And it injects a fun factor into our life as well. And I don't think I will lose to him in this thing because I can guess his next move with just a small twitch in his muscles. For instance, I just told him I don't want to eat that thing before he even raised the spoon to attempt to feed me. Hahahaha! I saw a twitch in his hands, for goodness sake! LOL! (I'm actually quite proud of this!!)

He is my beacon of light whenever I start groping in the dark. I say this sentence almost all the time to him. "OH! Ya HOR! Why din I think of that??!!" Haha. I saved a lot of hassle walking wrong paths because of him. And please, smart Kelly also do offer advices from time to time. All because I know my dear dear and I know when he is in trouble and when I should offer my advices. Hehs.

There's more than 101 things that we do to complement each other and to make each other happy. It's no longer just an attempt to make each other happy. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world. Not just because I have the best deardear in the world but because our relationship is a warm one. There's bickering, there's disagreements at times. But it's generally happy and it seems that I will never ever get sick of being together with him. There's mutual trust and there's mutual understanding.

What more can a girl ask for?

A diamond ring and a house maybe?

Hehs.

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